Who is didi?

I am.

Did you know that didi is a Hindi word for big sister?
I am the developer of NYdidi. There is a glamorized drawing of me on every page. I live in New York. I'm a wife and mother of two and
I'm also the eldest cousin of thirty-two. I was the first child on both sides of the family and didi is a word that I consider my own.
I got the idea for NYdidi when I was speaking to my cousins who were living away from home, working for multi-nationals, and ready to marry but not sure where to look.
Their parents wanted to help but they weren't sure either.
The classified ads I saw were, honestly, a bit demeaning. We are so much more than our salaries, heights and complexions.
I saw the discomfort that the new transient life was bringing.
So with NYdidi I am treating you all like my younger cousins, who I want to guide in this process. I want to be your didi.